Making Your Home a Haven
December 10th, 2007Not posting much today, as my beloved is home ill, and I am trying to let him rest and take care of him. He does not get ill often. I will see you all tomorrow, when I can participate a little better.
Not posting much today, as my beloved is home ill, and I am trying to let him rest and take care of him. He does not get ill often. I will see you all tomorrow, when I can participate a little better.
Good morning! My day got off with a good reading and some blogging. How about yours?
1) Refresh your spirit:
Today I read my Thursday reading of “Light of The World” in Praying the Names of Jesus.
Matthew 5:14-16 (NASB):
14 “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden;
15 nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house.
16 “Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.
Philippians 2:14-16 (NASB):
14 Do all things without grumbling or disputing;
15 so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world,
16holding fast the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I will have reason to glory because I did not run in vain nor toil in vain.
These are the verses that I will be meditating on today, as I go about my day, looking to Him to guide my path.
2) Take Time to Plan
I work today, so my planning will be centered around that.
For dinner tonight we are having Cube Steak and Mac & Cheese. I know it is not a “fancy” dinner, but Hubby loves it, and that is what matters.
3) Do Something!
Today’s “Do Something!” is to maintain the rooms we have cleaned and to clean the bathrooms. I will just be able to pick up the bathrooms and clean the toilet in the boys bathroom. I am not sure I will have time to do the rest of the bathrooms, but I will certainly try.
I will not be home most of the day to mark things off the list as I finish them. I will update this when I get the chance.
God bless you all and have a great day, making your home a haven for your family. Stop by and see Crystal for more details on this challenge.
Crystal @ Biblical Womanhood is keeping up the challenge of Making our homes a haven. This is my second day to participate, but it is the third day of the challenge.
1) Refresh Your Spirit
I did not do this in the right order. I woke up in a frenzy.
I am not going to let getting off on the wrong foot stop me though.
I have gone back and read the Wednesday reading for “Light of the World” in Praying the Names of Jesus.
1 John 1:5-7 (NASB):
God Is Light
5 This is the message we have heard from Him and announce to you, that God is Light, and in Him there is no darkness at all.
6 If we say that we have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth;
7but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.
I know there are times that I feel like I am in the dark, but this scripture speaks to me and reminds me that I am never in the dark. I need to not look into the darkness but keep my heart and mind focused on the Light of this World.
I am also reading in Acts for my daily reading. In Acts 17, it tells us how the Bereans were eager to hear the Word, and would study the Scriptures to make sure the teachings were accurate. This shows how wise they were. We all should study the Scriptures, when we are taught doctrine, to make sure it all adds up. I know that I do not always check the references.
Crystal would like us to share three things we are thankful for, I am going to fore go (sp? I hope I used and spelled that right) the obvious. I always start with God on my thankful lists, but I could do all three about Him, so I am going to list more every day things.
I am thankful for:
- My oldest just has a virus and not strep throat
- My husband forgives me for being moody last night after I broke one of my family heirloom ornaments
- I realize today that it was just a piece of glass, and just because the ornament is gone, it does not erase the 30 years of memories associated with it.
2) Take time to plan
My day is crazy, as I did not make my plan right away.
My to do list consists of:
Kid to Dr - virus ![]()
Laundry - get it all done??? - Folding 5th load. 1 in washer, 1 in dryer and one still in the dirty clothes.
Wrap Christmas Presents YAY! I did not think I would finish this one today
Grocery shopping
M&Ms to School for cookies
Finish decorating the house for Christmas
Get the Wed blog posting done
Follow through with today’s Encouraging Our Husbands Challenge
make up for yesterday
See if Bailey can cover the end of my shift tomorrow so I can go to Hubby’s company Christmas party
For dinner tonight we are having cashew chicken with jasmine rice.
It is a long list I will get as much done as possible. I work all the rest of the week.
3) Do Something!
Today is laundry day. Well, I have A LOT of laundry to do. I do not have a digital camera to show my progress or anything. I will just have to update this post when I finish.
Still working on laundry, but I did sweep the floor and organize the area better.
This Week’s Hero Was Suggested By Mark Bell

Born in Philadelphia, Marty Horn spent 20 years in the Army as a Military Policeman, retiring in 1993 and going to work in Internet technologies. In 2003, his son Brian Horn deployed to Iraq. Trying to support their son’s unit, Marty and his wife Sue, who also served as in the Military Police, put together the concept of Any Soldier. In essence, Any Soldier is an effort to provide support and encouragement to those who are in harm’s way. Due to overwhelming requests for ready-made care packages on the AnySoldier.com site, Sue Horn started TreatAnySoldier.com.
Using his background in Internet technologies, Marty built and maintains the web site. The Any Soldier program slowly expanded to include other Army units. In 2004, the program opened up to include all service branches.. In 2005, the websites for AnyMarine.com., AnySailor.com, AnyAirman.com, and AnyCoastguardsman.com were launched.
In the words of the Any Soldier web site: “The success of Any Soldier has far exceeded expectations and continues to grow with the invaluable help and guidance of our supporters, board members and Support Team.”
In the words of Marty Horn: “It is the supporters who deserve the credit.”
Thanks to the efforts of Marty and Sue, their son Brian, and a dedicated staff, over 950,000 servicemen and women received support and encouragement they would never have been able to get through the Any Soldier program.
These brave men and women sacrifice so much in their lives so that others may enjoy the freedoms we get to enjoy everyday. For that, I am proud to call them Hero.
We Should Not Only Mourn These Men And Women Who Died, We Should Also Thank God That Such People Lived
This post is part of the Wednesday Hero Blogroll. For more information about Wednesday Hero, or if you would like to post it on your blog, you can go here.
This week, the


ABOUT THE BOOK:
WHO KILLED HER BOSS?
Local police had tagged single mom Becky Dennison as their prime suspect. But she’d only been in the wrong place at the wrong time…admittedly, with her boss’s lifeless body. Sure it looked bad, but Becky had no motive for killing…even if she had opportunity.
When the director of the retirement farm for thoroughbred champions is murdered, Becky Dennison teams up with the handsome manager of a neighboring horse farm, Scott Lewis, to find her boss’s killer. Soon the amateur detective are hot on the trail of the murderer…even as their feelings for each other deepen.
The amateur sleuths uncover a trail of clues that lead them into the intricate society of Kentucky’s elite thoroughbred breeding industry. They soon find themselves surrounded by the mint julep set - jealous southern belles and intensely competitive horse breeders - in a high-stakes game of danger, money, and that famous southern pride.
And for Becky and Scott, this race on the Kentucky tracks has the greatest stakes of all: life or death!
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I would like to thank Biblical Womanhood for sharing this encouragement to make our homes a haven of peace and love. I am coming in a day late, but I hope to be able to participate daily.
There are three daily steps and none of them take very long. You spend time with God, first thing. You spend time planning your day, and you spend a few minutes picking up an area of the home.
1) Refresh Your Spirit
I am reading the devotional, Praying the Names of Jesus. I read the Tuesday reading for “Light of the World”, along with my daily reading. I am in Acts right now.
2) Plan
My normal to do list plus added some blogging prep and getting my Christmas tree up, finally.
Being a working mom my normal to do list varies from work days to home days. Being at home today, I worked around the house more than I would have if I would have been at work for seven hours.
3 loads of laundry
dishes
Work on Faith Filled Wives
Work on A Cup of Tea With Me
clean the bathrooms
Go “shopping” with Jim to daydream about the remodel
Grocery shopping
Put up the Christmas tree
3) Do Something
Yesterday’s area was the entry, today’s is the living area. Well, lucky for me they are one and the same. My home opens into my living room.
Today, I am getting ready to finally put up my Christmas tree, so I am having to rearrange my living room, dining room and breakfast nook.
It is pretty clean already, due to some furniture moving that Jim did last night. There is still some clutter though. HA! SOME clutter… this is my house we are talking about. There is quite a bit of clutter. I hope this challenge helps me conquer my bad habits too! ![]()
My friend Becki at A Walk Through the Valley is doing an awesome series on 30 Days with Jesus. I highly recommend you take a look at what she has to share. It is great!
Over at Faith Filled Wives, I am sharing a 30 day challenge on encouraging our husbands, written by Nancy Leigh DeMoss of Revive Our Hearts. I thought I would blog my personal challenge here, so that you all would know I was doing the challenge, too.
Today’s challenge is:
Day One:
“The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.” Prov. 31:11-12To refresh your memory . . . here’s the 30-Day Encouragement Challenge: for the next 30 days:
- You can’t say anything negative about your husband . . . to your husband . . . or to anyone else, about your husband.
- Say something that you admire or appreciate about your husband. . . to your husband . . . and to someone else, about your husband!
To help you get started, have you ever thanked your husband for “choosing you” above all other women? He found you attractive as a person, and appreciated you. Though many circumstances in your marriage may have changed, let your husband know that you are glad God led you together, and that you want to be a blessing to him for the rest of your marriage. Let him know that he can trust you to be in his corner.
One of the best opportunities to express your gratitude is first thing in the morning. How do you greet your husband each morning? Is he confident in your love? Give him a “wake up call” that he’ll never forget-a big “I love you” and an “I’m so glad I’m your wife!”
© Revive Our Hearts. Used with permission. www.ReviveOurHearts.com. Info@ReviveOurHearts.com.
I have been guilty of sharing negative things about my husband. I need this challenge as much as the next person does. However, with the main part of the challenge being “have you ever thanked your husband for “choosing you” above all other women?” oddly enough, I do that on a very regular basis.
I love that he chose me over the other women that he could have. I tell him often what it means to me to be the one that he chose to spend his life with.
My Beloved is a good man. I am honored to be his wife and want to make sure that he knows it every day for the rest of our lives.
There is a 30-Day encouragement challenge being shared over at Faith Filled Wives, I encourage you to check it out.
Jeffrey Overstreet lives in two worlds. By day, he writes about movies at LookingCloser.org and in notable publications like Christianity Today, Paste, and Image.His adventures in cinema are chronicled in his book Through a Screen Darkly. By night, he composes new stories found in fictional worlds of his own. Living in Shoreline, Washington, with his wife, Anne, a poet, he is a senior staff writer for Response Magazine at Seattle Pacific University.
Auralia’s Colors is his first novel. He is now hard at work on many new stories, including three more strands of The Auralia Thread.
ABOUT THE BOOK:
As a baby, she was found in a footprint.
As a girl, she was raised by thieves in a wilderness where savages lurk.
As a young woman, she will risk her life to save the world with the only secret she knows.
When thieves find an abandoned child lying in a monster’s footprint, they have no idea that their wilderness discovery will change the course of history.
Cloaked in mystery, Auralia grows up among criminals outside the walls of House Abascar, where vicious beastmen lurk in shadow. There, she discovers an unsettling–and forbidden–talent for crafting colors that enchant all who behold them, including Abascar’s hard-hearted king, an exiled wizard, and a prince who keeps dangerous secrets.
Auralia’s gift opens doors from the palace to the dungeons, setting the stage for violent and miraculous change in the great houses of the Expanse.
Auralia’s Colors weaves literary fantasy together with poetic prose, a suspenseful plot, adrenaline-rush action, and unpredictable characters sure to enthrall ambitious imaginations.
Visit the Website especially created for the book, Auralia’s Colors. On the site, you can read the first chapter and listen to jeffrey’s introduction of the book, plus a lit more!
PRAISE
“Film critic and author Overstreet (Through a Screen Darkly) offers a powerful myth for his first foray into fiction. Overstreet’s writing is precise and beautiful, and the story is masterfully told. Readers will be hungry for the next installment.”
–Publishers Weekly
“Through word, image, and color Jeffrey Overstreet has crafted a work of art. From first to final page this original fantasy is sure to draw readers in. Auralia’s Colors sparkles.”
-–Janet Lee Carey, award-winning author of The Beast of
Noor and Dragon’s Keep
“Jeffrey Overstreet’s first fantasy, Auralia’s Colors, and its heroine’s cloak of wonders take their power from a vision of art that is auroral, looking to the return of beauty, and that intends to restore spirit and and mystery to the world. The book achieves its ends by the creation of a rich, complex universe and a series of dramatic, explosive events.”
-–Marly Youmans, author of Ingledove and The
Curse of the Raven Mocker